Kissing is such a wonderful way to build “sexy” tension and in a very dreamy way.  Watch this video in the link below for my quick suggestions.  Also consider setting up a make-out session so you can enjoy building these kisses into long steamy ones.  In additional to the video kisses try adding the following ones to your repertoire:

Ask your partner for guidance for what felt good and what didn’t.  If your partner gets too aggressive in their kissing.  Stop momentarily.  Gently place your hand over your partner’s heart area.  Use a slight amount of pressure to move you both apart.  Then in a sexy whisper* say, “I like to take charge with this or wait a minute or I’ll take it from here”.  You will create sex positive tension as you lead this kiss.

*sexy whisper is done speaking softly, slow-staccato, (short with a tiny break between words) to enunciate and accentuate as if building to a Bogart movie moment that takes one’s breath away.