This video is to remind you that your parents or caregivers gave you their best teachings about sex, even if not much. Their beliefs influenced you in subtle and not-so-subtle ways.

Have some fun. Set up a chat so that you and your lover get to answer, “what did your parents teach you about sex?". This opens up a conversation about your love life. Stay tuned to experiences that might create stops in your intimacy based on family conditioning. Continue sharing about these situations so you fully understand them.

Talking through situations is a MAJOR way to get to a better level of physical intimacy. Another thing that moves your love life higher, is having a plan in mind before you begin your adult bedroom fun. Check out my 5 Stages of Intimacy as a guide to plan out your next pleasure moves clearly in your mind. This way you can move into intimacy with confidence.

In this video I mention kissing as a “conversation ritual” to move your partner into a passionate place. I say “conversation ritual” because kissing is sexiest when done like a back and forth conversation between two people.