So glad one of you wrote to me about reactions from a woman related to a gesture of eye-gazing.  Please know it could be any number of things that trigger a woman to stiffen, say something harsh or push away. 

When faced with this, I suggest slow your mind. Then ground your body by imagining you have roots growing out of the bottom of your body and breathe. 

Create moments of calm.  Begin transforming stoppages to a better place by staying by her side and offering verbal assurance.  She needs to feel safe.

You have unlimited healing potential as a man with positive intention.  Women need aware men as yourself, to hold a space for her to move this break in connection into calm neutrality for heightened fulfillment in body intimacy.  A woman’s lovemaking experiences may tap into what happened to her previously, deeply and long ago.  She may have no present time knowing.  Her halts will be your clue to stay the course and help her through.

Speak kind words like, “tell me more” or “I’m sorry you were hurt” or I’m here now”
Be compassionate by deliberately choosing love thoughts
* Compliment yourself for standing in the highest place to support both of you
* Blessings for your loving you and yours

If this topic resonated and you’d like to have a conversation about what it would look like when you create the love relationship you’ve dreamed of schedule a chat with me.  

Best Things Are Coming To You in 2021, much love from Nancy and her crew