I continue to write my book on Dr. Nancy’s 5 Stages of Intimacy. This process of writing can be slow and take up more time than I imagined. A smile comes across my face regularly, as I think of all of you. These thoughts of you really help me, especially when I’m working behind the scenes, and imagining those of you who may find my book helpful.

Today’s video is encouraging men to connect more deeply as you enter into foreplay conversation. Remember, foreplay starts way before the more obvious act of physical sex begins.

This video suggests you plan a chat-up with your partner. Sometimes a good place to talk is neutral and outside the bedroom. I’ll let you decide that.

I offer some questions for both of you to ask each other. Your answers will give you clues of building desire for your partner to desire you. Men really want to be longed for, lusted and desired after by their partner. Right-on!

These questions will send a cupid’s arrow to your sweetheart, that sparks an intimate conversation leading to a build of sexual intrigue. 

I'd like to keep you in the loop of what's inside my head for the new year. Besides finishing my book, I get excited over ideas and direction I'm planning.

My intention is to begin a new, group program in which I interview experts monthly. This would make it easy for you to get the latest on sex directly from those in the know. I also get a kick out of interviewing and asking those tough questions about men and sex. More about this in 2023.