Consider these great questions to invite your beloved into intimate conversation.

Speak these words.  “What is important for me to know about:

Your day
Our last love making
Tonight’s happy hour
Getting into bedtime snuggles tonight
Goings on with our household
My communication with you…”

Other things to keep in mind are as follows. Be intellectually honest with yourself.  What response did you elicit?  Even if your ears didn’t hear what you wanted, notice something that has value for your next conversation.  What did you learn from your beloved’s perspective (whether it make sense to you)?  Being an enlightened man that you are, I ask that you find a new and neutral understanding about your self’s reaction to your beloved’s way of thinking.  You get to change the way you receive your partner’s input so you get better at attracting what you do want in the conversation to penetration. 

Blessings for your loving conversation to intimacy journey in grandest pleasurable way.


If this topic resonated and you’d like to have a conversation about what it would look like when you create the love relationship you’ve dreamed of schedule a chat with me.  

Best Things Are Coming To You in 2021, much love from Nancy and her crew