What Does Self-Pleasure Add To Intimacy?

Self-pleasure is not taught to women as it is to men.  Boys watch porn and sometimes learn about masturbation from friends sexual pursuits whether imaginary or real. There is an old myth that married individuals don’t partake of self-stimulation.  This is false because sexual needs vary between each individual.  

Do give yourself and your partner permission to enjoy stimulating your own bodies. This can be done completely alone, in solo, or with your partner.  It can be quite erotic to masturbate just for your lover’s enjoyment watching you.


If this topic resonated and you’d like to have a conversation about what it would look like when you create the love relationship you’ve dreamed of schedule a chat with me.  

Best Things Are Coming To You in 2021, much love from Nancy and her crew